However, if just a few simple rules were followed, group chat life would be better for everyone.
After decades of group chat experience, Id like to propose a few basics.
Think before you postRemember, your post could be going to dozens of people.
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Do they all need to know about the one memory you shared with that one person?
Sometimes, you might send a direct message, even if its related to the group chat.
There are times when everyone needs to be involved in the discussion and times when they dont.
The reply feature is there—make use of it. David Nield / Gizmodo
Read and replyGroup chats can be difficult to track, but read whats come before to avoid needless repetition.
On WhatsApp, long-press on a message, then tap the reply arrow that appears.
That gives you (and the other admins) more control over whos involved.
You can set what other people can do in your groups.David Nield / Gizmodo
Use mute sparinglyMuting group chats are often necessary to maintain your sanity during specific conversations.
While mute is helpful and can prevent repeated phone dings, its important to use it responsibly.
It would be best if you tried to catch up on everything you missed while the chat was muted.
Turning up three days later and saying, What have I missed?
means everyone else must sit through a barrage of repeated information.
Stay on topicYou would think this goes without saying, but it doesnt.
With some group conversations, the rest of the people involved might not even notice that youre gone.
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